Rabbi Jakob Petuchowski, z’l,
taught us in rabbinical school that in terms of strengthening a child’s Jewish
identity and teaching Jewish values, “Building a sukkah is worth six months of
Sunday school.” So, shortly after our first child was born 33 years ago,
Vickie and I – in one of the best investments we ever made – ordered a fancy
tinker toy like sukkah building kit for $300. The memories that sukkah
created are priceless.
In his novel The Rabbi (McGraw Hill, 1965, pp.38-39) Noah Gordon
captured the sukkah’s power in this conversation between the protagonist
Michael’s observant Zaydeh and his assimilated daughter in law, Michael’s mother
Dorothy: “’Why do you bother?’ Dorothy asked him once when she brought
a glass of tea to where he (Zaydeh) strained and perspired to raise the
hut. ‘Why do you work so hard?’
‘To celebrate the
harvest.’
‘What harvest, for God’s sake? We’re not farmers.
You sell canned goods. Your son makes corsets for ladies with big
behinds. Who has a harvest?’ He looked pityingly at this female his son
had made his daughter. ‘For thousands of years, since the Jews emerged
from the Wilderness, in ghettos and in palaces they have observed Sukkos. You
don’t have to raise cabbages to have a harvest.’ His big hand grasped Michael
behind the neck and pushed him toward his mother. ‘Here is your harvest.’
She didn’t understand and by then Zaydeh had been living with them long enough
not to expect understanding from her.”
On the first day of Sukkot we read from the Torah: “You shall
dwell in booths seven days; that your generations may know that I (God) made the
children of Israel to dwell in booths, when I brought them out of the land of
Egypt.” (Leviticus 23:42-43)
There is no overstating the importance of the Exodus.
Celebrating Passover is not enough. Singing the Mee Chamocha from the Song
of the Sea (Exodus 15) at every morning and evening service is not enough.
Even when we celebrate our harvest festival, the sukkah reminds us of the debt
we owe the Almighty for freeing us from lives of drudgery in bondage in order to
allow us to use our talents to create a more just, caring and compassionate
society on earth.
What
else does the sukkah teach us today? When we sit in the sukkah, we have no
protection from the sun, the wind, the heat or the cold. Our Sages
encourage us to leave the sukkah to escape a driving rain, but far too many
people in our world, and maybe even in our own city, do not have dry
warm-in-winter, cool-in-summer homes to which they can retreat.
In terms of building Jewish identity, I have never seen a
Jewish child who helps build and decorate a sukkah feel jealous, sad or left out
at Christmastime when all of his or her non Jewish friends are trimming their
trees, and he or she is not. We should encourage our children to invite
their non-Jewish friends to their sukkah and help to put up decorations.
Then in December they can admire and even help decorate their friends’ Christmas
trees without feeling the need to have one of their own. In this way the
sukkah not only helps children feel proud of their Judaism; it helps them foster
understanding and mutual respect with their non-Jewish friends.
Yes, Rabbi Petuchowski was right. Building a sukkah and
understanding its lessons is worth six months of Sunday school. As I
ponder the pleasure our sukkah gives us and the role it has played in shaping
the Jewish souls of my three now grown children, I even think that my teacher
might have even understated the case.
UJC Rabbinic Cabinet Chair: Rabbi Steven E.
Foster Vice Chair: Rabbi Amy Small Vice Chair: Rabbi Stuart G.
Weinblatt Vice Chair: Rabbi Larry Kotok President:
Rabbi Jonathan Schnitzer Honorary Chair: Rabbi Matthew H.
Simon
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